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this is so exciting!!!!! :D

(27 Posts)
killpeppa Wed 06-Nov-13 19:54:58

I know some of you will think,
'so what... big deal' BUT...

after being in a financially and emotionally abusive relationship for the past three years I am finally in charge of my own finances!

he has no access!
I received my first child tax payment today as a single claimant & it hasn't been transferred straight out!!

I feel liberated. just sayinggrin

Congratulations! I felt the same last year, it is briliant!

MumOfTheMoos Wed 06-Nov-13 19:57:09

Fab!

MushroomFuckerSoup Wed 06-Nov-13 19:57:28

Hurray!

Avondale Wed 06-Nov-13 19:59:14

Nice one! Lovin the user name too!

ALittleBitOfMagic Wed 06-Nov-13 20:03:30

Amazing !!!! grin

grin Fabulous well done you grin

DevonFolk Wed 06-Nov-13 20:06:39

Amazing feeling!! Well done thanks

mammadiggingdeep Wed 06-Nov-13 20:07:54

smile brilliant!!!
Whoop whoop x

wontletmesignin Wed 06-Nov-13 20:13:39

that's awesome. well done and congratulations smile smile

Lweji Wed 06-Nov-13 20:14:23

Well done. grin

MistAllChuckingFrighty Wed 06-Nov-13 20:26:30

You again ??!

Brilliant grin

grin
Enjoy it!

killpeppa Wed 06-Nov-13 21:43:08

me again mist all. sorry, probably sick at the sight of me.

thanks everyone, just felt like sharing.
treated myself to some crochet materials- woo big spender.
thought a hobby should join me on my quiet eveningssmile

redundantandbitter Wed 06-Nov-13 21:43:48

I can feel your relief and happiness. Spend it well hun x

MistAllChuckingFrighty Wed 06-Nov-13 21:44:19

Not at all grin

killpeppa Wed 06-Nov-13 21:46:05

phewsmile

flame04 Wed 06-Nov-13 21:46:47

Good for you!!! Independent and financially stable!!! Whoohoo! Xxx smile

FreeAtLastAtLongLast Wed 06-Nov-13 21:48:02

Good for you! thankssmile

SisterMerror Wed 06-Nov-13 21:56:27

Fantastic. Well done thanks

Molly333 Wed 06-Nov-13 21:57:18

Fab news , mine too the csa have got my ex and he has to pay more than I thought . His new wife won't be impressed

killpeppa Wed 06-Nov-13 22:08:43

Molly- Christmas must be looking a bit brighter in your housesmile

next on the list is a house- I've one to view tomorrow with my darling mother. quite excited at the prospect as I canny face exH coming and going when he pleases from here ATM ( staying at his mums-only for a monthhmm)

CogitoErgoSometimes Thu 07-Nov-13 07:22:40

Great feeling, isn't it? FWIW you don't have to let the ex come and go as he pleases. If you tell him to stay away and he refuses to listen there are ways around it, especially if there's a divorce underway. Have you taken legal advice?

TiredDog Thu 07-Nov-13 07:25:37

Yeah! Fab isn't it

killpeppa Thu 07-Nov-13 09:19:38

we can't divorce yet as the law in NI is that you have to be married 2 years until you can apply for divorce and we have only just been married one. FFS.
he cheated 9 months in btw.

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