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feel v low and DH just cross with me for being 'unreasonable'

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semirurallife Sun 27-Oct-13 19:04:55

AIBU TO BE PISSED OFF...since having DS, #2, been barely in work. now am trying to find new/more and its not going anywhere, rejection rejection etc. ... its been getting me down, especially when am also doing 120% housework and redecorating place we bought, with deadlines and cashshort. so last night was really upset and f***er wouldn't even talk to me, just says, 'you're being unreasonable' - of course i am being unreasonable, I am upset and REALLY frustrated - oh and have very bad pMT this month too- so eventually he deigns to talk to me and gets ANGRY with me for being emotional. his life b4 me (with me?) was very sad so realise there is a limit to what can expect, but just feel like he can't be arsed to pull his finger out and try to connect with me...
m fed up with feeling washed up at age of 41 and ignored by family - kids are cute but small so require everything doing for them! argh... any pearls of wisdom on how to cope? thanks...

CogitoErgoSometimes Sun 27-Oct-13 19:13:45

Put down the housework, step away from the paintbrush, leave the DCs with Dad and go take some time for yourself... go see friends for a few days perhaps. Stress is very corrosive and I think you need a break.

semirurallife Sun 27-Oct-13 19:15:23

sounds a good idea cogito... miss the gals -tho they are very dispersed which makes it tougher!

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