I had my thread deleted for fear of him looking it up as he's very disparaging of MN despite claiming to be "a feminist".
Background, together for 7 years, fairly volatile relationship with faults on both sides, but one of ye olde 'we're so passionate' type of things going on. Have split and reconciled several times until he recently beat me up, I was hospitalised and threw him out. Whilst the police and ambulance service were with me, he came back and attempted to drive his car, was arrested for drink driving and has been banned for two years.
He's sleeping rough and and we are in text contact. I'm not so heartless that I can't check he's not dead. He's on anti depressants, 50mg a day and has been now referred for cardio and neuro tests.
I'm asking for advice on this. Should I contact his family and make sure they are aware of all this. If he dies, an almighty shitstorm will be laid at my door, even though he it ultimately responsible for his own well being. He is adamant I should not contact them, so I would be going against his wishes.
He's being a right bloody martyr about all this as well as being abusive on text, so I'm not in the most sympathetic of moods, but feeling that I shouldn't be so hard.
What are your thoughts?
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