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My OH always anal

(87 Posts)
SnoozyAQ Wed 23-Oct-13 20:49:36

I really do love my OH and we have a great sex life but we always end up having anal sex neither of us can seem to have what I would call normal loving sex. Does this mean we are just in tune with each other or we have problems.
We can start off having sex where I feel we are proving we love each other but it soon turns into animalistic sex.

Reality Wed 23-Oct-13 20:50:59

Um.

Erk.

Um.

Okay then.

lurkinglorna Wed 23-Oct-13 20:52:47

paul dacre is that you?

KareninsGirl Wed 23-Oct-13 20:53:31

Why did I read this? Why?

TheLeastAccomplishedBennetGirl Wed 23-Oct-13 20:53:43

grin lorna

MrsWolowitz Wed 23-Oct-13 20:53:53

Um.

If you are both wanting and enjoying the anal then that's fine.

Its good to have a bit of variety though and not just the same old routine.

amothersplaceisinthewrong Wed 23-Oct-13 20:54:14

biscuit

SnoozyAQ Wed 23-Oct-13 20:56:17

I just worry that we don't seem to have meaningful sex if that makes sense.
Don't want to offend anyone but I needed to ask

lurkinglorna Wed 23-Oct-13 20:57:21

maybe you could try a therapist. i know this great guy in hull.

Orangeanddemons Wed 23-Oct-13 20:59:15

He only deals in front bottoms though doesn't he Lurking?

SnoozyAQ Wed 23-Oct-13 20:59:38

Lurkinglorna have you had anything similar

bundaberg Wed 23-Oct-13 20:59:41

why isn't anal sex meaningful?

and if you want a different kind of sex that is meaningful then why don't you do that instead?

SnoozyAQ Wed 23-Oct-13 21:02:54

bundaberg I do see it's as meaningful maybe before I used the wrong word I guess I see anal as more of a non romantic sex, he kind of expects it to go the anal way

lurkinglorna Wed 23-Oct-13 21:03:38

what's "animalistic" sex? is that like dressing up as a blobfish?

Ursula8 Wed 23-Oct-13 21:04:57

Shit is it Friday already?

AnyTweaselsFucker Wed 23-Oct-13 21:05:12

Ah fuck off, seriously just fuck off.

LamaDrama Wed 23-Oct-13 21:05:16

Yoni live once

Kormachameleon Wed 23-Oct-13 21:05:33

Do you really have nothing better to do ?

Heartbrokenmum73 Wed 23-Oct-13 21:07:29

Half-term already???

My dc have another two days yet!

biscuit

SnoozyAQ Wed 23-Oct-13 21:08:35

I thought this was a place you could ask questions

Fluffycloudland77 Wed 23-Oct-13 21:08:38

I don't think any of us are going to start telling you about experiences we've had with anal sex.

Annagramma Wed 23-Oct-13 21:08:58

Okay.

ShadeofViolet Wed 23-Oct-13 21:09:00

I though this thread was about a DH who was always anal.

I was going to say mine is the same. He has his ties ordered by shade and pattern.

SnoozyAQ Wed 23-Oct-13 21:09:43

I asked my question

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