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Shagaholic.com

(32 Posts)
Shagaholic Wed 23-Oct-13 19:18:35

Dh didn't shut his email down
And some other fuckforalifetime bollocks

There were no chats or messages sent, really basic package, had to upgrade to send messages

I forwarded emails to myself, but they turned up blank
Then the pc jammed so had to shut down and so lost his emails

Ds and mil were around so I didn't get much info

So I have no evidence of anything
His mum is here from abroad for another week
And he's away til Sunday

Wtf do I do
I've had enough of his behaviour anyway, but this is the push I need, but no evidence now

noslimbody Thu 24-Oct-13 02:41:39

OK, I found messages on h's computer from shagoholic and he claimed it was spam. I didn't really believe him, but didn't have anything to say.
So he is definitely lying then?
Sorry for thread hijack OP

Shagaholic Thu 24-Oct-13 08:14:34

Not sure
I think they could get spam messages
But I don't see how they can have a profile with correct dob etc

PamDooveOrangeJoof Thu 24-Oct-13 08:43:11

When my husband signed up to Adultwork, the email said at the bottom 'this is not spam. You will be receiving this as you are a registered member and have agreed to be contacted by email'. Or something like that. Have a look at the bottom of the emails he was sent.
I agree with others. Buse your time, watch and wait. Confronting usually just makes them better at hiding stuff.

alphacourse Thu 24-Oct-13 08:56:18

Sorry - it isn't spam, as much as you would like it to be. Have you googled his username?

Shagaholic Thu 24-Oct-13 11:24:58

His isn't spam
He signed up, he might not have responded to anything, but he did log on and registered

There's not much more investigating I can do right now
He's back at the weekend, then I'm going to my parents next week
Not that keen on leaving him alone, but I'm still going
Will address it all after that I think
See if he uses the pc when I'm away
I'm more it savvy than him, but he probably knows enough to cover his tracks
Intuanua- thanks for the offer, I do have a cleaning program on there, I think I've cleaned it up ok. That needed doing anyway.
I'm going to name change back now, so will leave this for a while
Thanks all

ChuffMuffin Thu 24-Oct-13 11:30:20

The website mammadiggingdeep is thinking of is www.pipl.com

I'm sorry you're going through this sad

meekenough Thu 24-Oct-13 12:35:47

Do you have a camera/phone you can use take photos of the screen?

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