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How true is it?

(19 Posts)
brokenhearted55a Sun 20-Oct-13 23:56:51

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thestauntonlick Mon 21-Oct-13 00:01:52

Come back from where?

NicknameIncomplete Mon 21-Oct-13 00:02:16

My exh tried to get back with me not long before he married the OW. He was swiftly told to fuck off.

Leavenheath Mon 21-Oct-13 00:03:17

Where did you hear this?

brokenhearted55a Mon 21-Oct-13 00:03:41

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C0ffeeN0biscuit Mon 21-Oct-13 00:04:59

Well, a man i loved at the time dumped me and i never saw him again.

My x wanted me back when i left him. Tried to order me back.

Do you want the x to change his mind abiut finishing with you?

brokenhearted55a Mon 21-Oct-13 00:05:11

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Shellywelly1973 Mon 21-Oct-13 00:05:19

I used to think ex's were ex's for a reason!

Never had this problem...

You know in your heart of hearts if they are ex's for a good reason or not , as the case may be.

thestauntonlick Mon 21-Oct-13 00:05:47

Tell him to fuck off if he's headfucking you. You don't have to accept him contacting you if you don't want him to.

C0ffeeN0biscuit Mon 21-Oct-13 00:05:49

Oh. Dont sit around waiting. Can you block his number?

humblebumble Mon 21-Oct-13 00:06:41

Nope they all went running from me never to be heard from again.

brokenhearted55a Mon 21-Oct-13 00:08:23

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brokenhearted55a Mon 21-Oct-13 00:10:15

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thestauntonlick Mon 21-Oct-13 00:12:18

They probably contact you when they're single/after a shag/bored or whatever. I don't mean to be rude, but it doesn't sound very mysterious to me.

thestauntonlick Mon 21-Oct-13 00:13:21

Ah right! Why don't you contact him then? smile

brokenhearted55a Mon 21-Oct-13 00:14:50

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thestauntonlick Mon 21-Oct-13 00:17:06

Erm, I don't know. How did you leave it when you split? Is he actually worth contacting?

brokenhearted55a Mon 21-Oct-13 00:29:50

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thestauntonlick Mon 21-Oct-13 09:37:58

I'm definitely not an expert in these matters, but you could just text him and ask how things are going, and then if he is interested it leaves it open for him to ask you out maybe. At least you'll know one way or the other and can move on if he's not up for it. Nothing ventured etc.

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