Send naked photos? I started seeing a guy fairly recently, although we've been casual friends for years so I haven't just met him. We finished this weekend, well we're taking a break...a whole other thread. Basically I've just left a long and abusive marriage and we realised that it was a bad time to be starting something new.
But a few weeks ago me and the new bf were chatting on the phone one night...he had sent me a naked pic of himself the night before and he passed a comment that it would be nice for me to do the same. I just kind of laughed it off and it wasn't mentioned again until this weekend...we had a good chat about why we should have a break and he brought up the fact that I have many confidence issues, particularly around sex and intimacy. He wasn't being cruel...hes right and I'm starting counselling as I knew this myself. He commented on the fact that I wouldn't send the pic that time and that I found stuff like that difficult even though he views it as a healthy part of a relationship. I've been with my dh since I was 18 so have very limited experiences in relationships so I suppose I'm just wondering whether he's right and its a fairly typical thing to do in relationships?
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Have you ever done this with your dp/dh?
Muchadoaboutnuthing · 20/10/2013 14:47
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