I have been with dh for 17 years married 10 we have Ds(6) and Dd(4). To look at us all is perfect, dh has good job I work 2 days a week as a nurse, we have nice house, do lots as a family. But dh is very controlling it has got worse in last few years. I get blamed for everything and within the last year each trip we have had out I associate with an episode of criticism ie not packing something , not making enough picnic, taking a bag instead of a rucksack.
I recently told him I had had enough and wanted to separate he told me it isn't happening and that we will make it work and have to stay together for the children. He then told me I have screwed up morals and that the rosy world which I think exists doesn't. When I suggested we get counselling he said he doesn't need it as I am the one with the problem.
Am I being selfish and wrong? Is it right to stay in this marriage when I no longer love him?
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Pollyd76 · 20/10/2013 09:01
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