I've been single-ish for 7 years. I've had a couple of flings but nothing you would call serious. I've now been seeing a man for a couple of months. At the moment I don't consider us to be a 'proper' couple. I'll need time before I can get to that point again (I have said this to him).
Anyway he spends a lot of time at my house because I have dd(8). He'll (of his own accord) do my dishwasher, make me cups of coffee, cook for me etc without asking me first (obviously I'm not going to complain ) and he'll bring over food and drink so he's contributing so not mooching off me.
The issue is that he's just gone upstairs, got my charger, brought it back down, and plugged his phone in. For some reason it has (unreasonably?) got my back up. Yes if he'd said to me "do you mind if I get your charger so I can charge my phone" I would have said no problem whatsoever. It is the fact he didn't ask, but conversely if he surprised me with a cup of coffee in the morning I wouldn't have an issue....
I can't work out why it has bothered me so much though.
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I can't work out if it's right I'm annoyed by this or not
GreatBallsofFluff · 13/10/2013 17:29
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