...do you regret it, or was it the best thing you did?
Reason I ask, is my mother has tendencies of toxicicity. Things she has done include:
Forced me into abortion in my teens
Asked to borrow tens of thousands of pounds of my savings to pay her debts off. I knew I would never get it back, so I said no in the nicest way possible. She then said the repossession of her house was my fault because she couldn't keep up with her debts
She talked me out of uni when I was offerered a place in one of top institutes in country.
She's negative about anything I achieve
She's negative about anything full stop
I joined a club today to make new friends in towni live in because having moved here in January, dp and i still bArely know anyone. She was negative about that. It's an animal protection group for owls and when I told her, she was yelling 'owls, fycking owls' down the phone.
She always sided with my step father despite him being EA towards me.
She regularly belittles me over my weight
As a kid we couldn't afford to go away, yet she could afford a 60-a-day habit
Grandparents left house in will to my mother and then to me, but only put mother in will just surmising she would respect their wishes and pass it on to me, but she won't rewrite her will, absolutely refuses, meaning it will go to my stepfather.
She's lazy and doesn't get up til mid day
She makes me feel guilty by complaining about her finances/lack of food when I go over
I have fab in-laws and am really envious of the fact theyre dp's parents and he had a wonderful upbringing. They've made my mother seem worse than ever Becaue They're so great. I would
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