Hi all;
Quick back story.
Stbxh been ill for 3 years.
Severe short term memory problems; mood swings, ,
xtreamly selfish.
He couldn't cope with family life.
Left us (4dc , 14; 12; 10, 8) a year ago.
My sis and his sis (my sil) incredibly interfering in his medical care v before he left. E.g. appointmenrs ,
second diagnosis, access to medical notes all staged for, then, dh without my knowledge. He couldn't tell me because of memory I problems.
Sil said a year ago " I will do my damnest (sp) to make sure he never comes home"
He's had a year of ppoison about me and our life being dripped in his ear I ( even with his memory problems stuff will go in eventuality )
I know he had been been lied to and suspect much , much more.
E.g. He totally believed his solicitor had told him he "was not allowed" to see his kids.
Only a Court can do this and only I in extern cases.
Now he can see his kids but of course ( due to mh ( has no recollection of previous "advice" from solicitor.
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Just can't get my head at around how much stbxh is at "fault" (mh issues and amnesia) just keep going round and round in circles.
catfourfeet · 22/09/2013 19:29
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