Just that really, or as they say in 'When Harry Met Sally' - does the 'sex stuff' always get in the way?
I have never had male friends that I didn't think of sexually, if they were attractive. My husband now has a female friend (work colleague) that is young, beautiful and they have a close bond. I am very uncomfortable with it but have nothing to pinpoint as their (numerous!) emails are only ever chatty, their lunches are friendly, there is never anything even a tiny bit personal said between them and so on, both married with kids, they mention their spouses, it's all just chat about other stuff, getting on well and so on. He just likes her so so so so so much and is open about that.
So I have no right to be jealous except that all this friendship + her attractiveness make me think that surely my husband thinks of her 'like that'. Do you think he does?
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