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What on earth do I say?

(27 Posts)
mummymcphee Fri 13-Sep-13 20:33:00

Planned a cosy night in with my new bf (I have been seeing him once or twice a week over the summer as it is difficult to see each other more frequently as I have a 2 year old DD and work full time).

Anyway we had a glass of wine over dinner and he told me that the friend who visited him a few weeks ago was actually an on off ex girlfriend and that she was shocked to find out he was seeing me and that she still loved him. He then said he had tried a relationship on three occasions with her since 2008 and that it had always ended when she had a meltdown. He told me he did love her but not on 'that' level. They both posted an album of her visit (she lives 200 miles away) on facebook and they look like a couple having a great time with his family. He just said that it wasn't real life and that she was a good time girl.

I have tonight to think about what I am going to say too him tomorrow...should I ignore the very uneasy feeling I have or should I suggest a break so He can go and find out how he really feels about her?

PrincessFlirtyPants Fri 13-Sep-13 23:17:33

From what you have said, I think it's for the best OP.

Enjoy your time away smile

TalkativeJim Fri 13-Sep-13 23:24:47

Not worth the hassle - run run run

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