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I think I'm going to finish with DP

(261 Posts)
Johnny5needsinput Mon 02-Sep-13 18:14:32

I'm a regular. Please don't out me if you recognise me. I am female the user name is from a film called short circuit.

I'm going to finish with DP. I feel sick.

Johnny5needsinput Mon 09-Sep-13 19:21:30

I haven't contacted him. I won't. That would give him power over me. I know that, logically. But god I miss him.

PseudoBadger Mon 09-Sep-13 19:30:05

So ask yourself - if he contacts you, or does any of those things in your last post - what do you want out of it? What will you do? This no contact seems hard now, but it's surely easier in the long term as you could put him out if your mind now and move on.

Johnny5needsinput Mon 09-Sep-13 19:31:24

I want to shout and rant and yell at him. But if I do he'd just twist it against me.

So I'm eating chocolate cake and mnetting instead :D

Johnny5needsinput Mon 09-Sep-13 19:45:28

I'm going to have a bath and go to bed. I ache.

PseudoBadger Mon 09-Sep-13 19:57:58

Stay strong smile

SequinsOfEvents Sat 14-Sep-13 04:50:43

Hi Johnny

Hope all is going well for you and you've stayed strong and away from this man.

It's been over almost a week since you last posted and I was just wondering.

Hope you're well smile

cloudskitchen Sat 14-Sep-13 09:08:26

How are you doing Johnny?

Johnny5needsinput Sat 14-Sep-13 09:25:22

Doing good. Still haven't heard from him. Spent last night out with a bunch of girlfriends. I do miss him but I also like being able to be me.

Dd is with her dad this weekend so I'm keeping myself busy.

Lizzabadger Sat 14-Sep-13 10:49:28

Good on you!

You are well-rid.

Hope you are doing lots of nice things.

Johnny5needsinput Sat 14-Sep-13 11:12:43

Washing and ironing .....

Lizzabadger Sat 14-Sep-13 11:28:39

Oh sod that. Eat chocolate cake and watch trash then go out dancing!

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