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Is this pic strange?

(142 Posts)
wherewouldyoulive Sun 01-Sep-13 13:06:45

Many years ago, after I first met my husband he went holiday to Ibiza with a group of friends. One of the pics taken at that time was with his female hometown friend and he was standing with her puting his hand on her waist. Is this anything strange?

TheWomanWhoMistookHerHusbandFo Sun 01-Sep-13 13:37:16

Ooooooookaaaay

<backs away>

wherewouldyoulive Sun 01-Sep-13 13:38:21

Yea this is the only issue.

Vatta Sun 01-Sep-13 13:40:27

OP, I really don't think this is an issue. It's totally normal. Not sure why you find anything odd about it to be honest.

Viking1 Sun 01-Sep-13 13:42:52

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KonnieLingus Sun 01-Sep-13 13:48:39

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wherewouldyoulive Sun 01-Sep-13 14:10:45

Yes this pic was on his facebook. Actually the pic was very small and low quality so I deleted it the other day when I logged on his account. I dont know why it suddenly bothers me at this moment. Maybe I've never taken pictures putting my arm around my male friends. I was going to talk about this pic with my husband if most of you say the pic is strange.

Portofino Sun 01-Sep-13 14:13:43

You logged onto his account?

Libertine73 Sun 01-Sep-13 14:16:54

The w-w-w-w-waist???!!! <<clutches pearls and posts Relate number>> sorry OP, but this is Soooooooo not an issue in my book.

Viking1 Sun 01-Sep-13 14:16:57

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IKnewHouseworkWasDangerous Sun 01-Sep-13 14:17:27

You deleted photos on his account because you have some odd insecutities? If there really sis nothing else going on here, and he gives you no other reason to doubt his word, then you really need to get some professional help.

AnyFucker Sun 01-Sep-13 14:24:19

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Libertine73 Sun 01-Sep-13 14:24:28

Yes, does he know you've been in his account and deleted an old photo??!shock

fifi669 Sun 01-Sep-13 14:27:55

OP I'm a pretty jealous person..... But I don't see any issue here. Standard photo pose I think.

HeySoulSister Sun 01-Sep-13 14:28:18

You have bigger problems than a photo!

wherewouldyoulive Sun 01-Sep-13 14:28:37

I go on to his account and upload the pics and delete them too. I dont think it's a problem to edit his photos. He knows that.

ElaineVintage Sun 01-Sep-13 14:28:59

Get. A. Grip.

IKnewHouseworkWasDangerous Sun 01-Sep-13 14:35:39

Yes that is a problem!

wherewouldyoulive Sun 01-Sep-13 14:37:48

IKnewHousework.. what is?

Foxred10 Sun 01-Sep-13 14:39:14

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HeySoulSister Sun 01-Sep-13 14:39:59

Deleting his stuff, logging onto his account etc.... It's not healthy is it?

TurnOffTheTv Sun 01-Sep-13 14:40:34

I'm really sorry but you sound BONKERS. I can't even wrap my head around what you are trying to say. How many years is since he touched her waist? And would you honestly ask him about it?

AnyFucker Sun 01-Sep-13 14:40:57

advance search is every respondent's friend here

TurnOffTheTv Sun 01-Sep-13 14:44:39

grinAnyFucker. Some fab posts in the search history!

IKnewHouseworkWasDangerous Sun 01-Sep-13 14:46:42

If what you say is real then it is a problem to be concerned that your dh has, in the past, met people, some of whom may have been female.

It is a problem that you are upset by an innocent group photo.

It is a problem that you are this anxious

It is a problem that you are editing HIS account without his say so. The clue being it is HIS account

Foxred10 Sun 01-Sep-13 14:46:52

AF I am now TOTALLY speechless!! shockshockshockshockshock

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