Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide, which can point you to expert advice and support.

just had fab date, but.... he clearly wanted to come back to my place...

(231 Posts)
theendishere Sat 31-Aug-13 01:40:39

that's it really! surely most guys would realise that's not an option on a first date?!

MissStrawberry Fri 06-Sep-13 13:53:10

In the future maybe ask out a man yourself. But not this one!!

BitOutOfPractice Fri 06-Sep-13 13:57:06

I whole heartedly agree with the poster who said that it shouldn't be this tricky at the start. The OLD site is only the first point of contact. After that it should be just like meeting in RL in a pub or whatever. Call each other, text, arrange to meet...no games or pissing about. I don't really know why OLD seems to bring out this bad behaviour sad

I'd do out with lovely pub man again if I were you.

theendishere Fri 06-Sep-13 21:43:15

Well surprise, surprise - I've not heard from him! I think a week is along enough to decide if you want a second date!!!
Pub guy texted yesterday and we have arranged to go out next weekend - I did tll him a coule of weeks ago if we met again prob just as friends so hope i'm not leading him on by going out Physically he's just not my type at all

HerdyHerdwick Fri 06-Sep-13 21:50:42

Massage Man will very likely pop up again completely out of the blue acting as if you two have been in contact all along.....
See how it goes with Pub Guy.

theendishere Fri 06-Sep-13 21:56:28

yes, I wouldn't be surprised Herdy !
I'll see how it goes, but don't want to lead him on either as he seems like a nice guysmile I know people who know him too which makes me feel "safer" with hi if that makes sense?!

theendishere Mon 09-Sep-13 13:40:02

Well, what a surprise still no response from him - another one to put down to experience. It feels like OND is a waste of time atm, but also good to know that some of you have met your partners this way!

Join the discussion

Join the discussion

Registering is free, easy, and means you can join in the discussion, get discounts, win prizes and lots more.

Register now