Dh has taken the kids away for a few days. Not unusual as we do pretty much everything separately at the moment. We are separated though still living together for financial reasons and I don't expect us to get back together. I also don't see how we'll end it, tbh. I have no money to move out. He's not violent or nasty, we just get on with it for the kids.
Just looked through a an old wallet stuffed full of work receipts and found:
a. Half (!) a large red triangular tablet that I googled and now think is a 'generic' Viagra rip off
b. A paying in slip from the bank with the name of suspected OW on it, for £100 from 2011
c. A business card with the (unusual) name of a sports instructor on it that he used when on holiday with 'friends'. Having looked at OW's Facebook (before she blocked me!) I know she follows this guy and now firmly suspect she was also on the same holiday - he denied it before.
I could list all the other ways I've suspected he's cheated, including earrings in the laundry ( I don't wear them), unexplained dog hairs in his car (she has one) etc etc... I'm not devastated because I want him for myself. I don't. I'm just fucking angry he's taking me for an idiot and not having the balls to admit it when I tell him I know he's seeing/has seen someone else.
What would you do when he got back? Don't say 'have his stuff in the garden waiting for him' because I'm past all that.
He's taking the piss but I just want to get him to finally admit it after having confronted him SO many times before and he's lied his way out of it and made me feel like I was a nagging bitch for going on about it.
Sorry this was long. I have three days to get this sorted in my head.
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DH on holiday... so I looked through his wallet
mywayorthehighway · 22/08/2013 16:09
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