At the start of the year I went into hospital for an op, a few weeks before this H went in for the snip. After this op I had to refrain from sex for several weeks. H understood but wasn't keen as he was worried he wasn't going to do the required amount of ejaculations for his test time (which made me anyway as it was 20 or so times in 4 months).
A day or two after I came out of hospital he took himself off to the loo and spent 45mins at least, there. This went on at least daily for a few weeks.
I asked him what he was doing one day, when I got frustrated with him disappearing and leaving me feeling unwell alone with DS for so long for no real reason.
He told me he was off wanking to porn each day to get his number up, I cried as he was more interested in wanking than helping me recover.
Now it's many months later and this is still upsetting me, I don't really know why. How do I go forward and get over it?
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Stuck in a loop with what H had done, how do I stop it upsetting me?
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