Feeling little sad as after only 8 months (since my ds was born and he was the last one) our group seems,to have fissled out. It seems very early for it to have happened as I think most people atleast last a year. But I told myself not to bank on making best friends with these people and so aren't devastated or anything but I must admit I thought the meeting up might have gone on a bit longer.
I think the mistake we,made was never arranging one day a week where we all meet. It wasn't done at the beginning, then it was mentioned lots of times but never happened as people started groups or lives away and it became apparent that finding one day that we could all do was going to be tricky. I think no one wanted to step on anyones toes by suggesting a day knowing a certain person couldn't do it, atleast that's why I didn't organise it.
The one I got on best with, saw regularly and made an effort with me is moving to America for a year and I feel since finding out she no longer makes an effort. Was meant to see her today but she canceled and it just made,me think, that's probably it then. Shame.
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
are you still friends with your NCT group or did it just fissle out?
cleoowen · 06/08/2013 19:35
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.