I posted a few times asking for advice on how to cope with the fact that my husband has left me recently. We have two daughters who are seven and just four. Basically back in march my husband of three years,together for eight, told me he'd fallen out of love with me and didn't see a future for us. I was absolutely heartbroken and would have done anything to rescue our marriage but he had completely gone past the point of even trying.
Last night he sent me a text which said he'd been on a few dates with the same person over the last three weeks. I felt like I did the day he left when my legs went all wobbly and I have been crying all night. It's the thought of him holding her and and being with her in the way he used to be with me. He's a policemen and she's a colleague from work. I asked if he met her after he left and he said he knew her before but nothing happened until three weeks ago. He said she has two children and I cannot imagine how my girls will feel if in the future things get more serious and surely they'll be hurt that he is with Somme else's children and not them. They are the most beautiful, lovely little girls and don't deserve this.
From what I have said, does it sound like this has been going on all along? How do you ever stop the feeling of being so sad and imagining the person you love so much with someone else? Sorry for the ramble. I don't feel like I'll ever get through it x
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Is this the reason he left?
TopsyTurvey87 · 28/07/2013 06:40
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