Hi All,
I'd appreciate some advice pls! :)
I'm currently working on a project which involves working with a large team of opertaional staffn I don't manage them, but have become close to them as I have to gather requirements design new process etcetc
I get on with the team very well and they invite me to all nights out etc as I fit in well with the group- my colleague on the other hand does not...
She's rather prissy and condeseding at times, dominates conversations, can really labour a point and is a bit 'full on' for most of the group. I think she is pissed off that the team have warmed to me more than her
I have been a good friend to my colleague helping her through personal problems loaning her money etc- and she knows that I had a terrible breakup recently and my confidence is low.
Thrusday the team went for a drink to the local pub everyone was invited, my friend came along, so we were all sitting in a group my friend says....
'Oh I think Tom fancies you and you defintely fancy him youre always flirting with him! You need a vibrator ill take you shopping for one!' Someone else then says maybe Tracy (friend) can help you out- Tracy then says ' no way she would suffocate me with those big things (my boobs)'
Now I have got large breasts, not freakisly so, but I'm busty, the group we are with is mainly male under 30, so no doubt they have noticed, but I always dress to play them down, and never flaunt my bust at work.
So now I feel I've been turned into a sex object by a female colleague, who has said that I'm not getting any sex, obviously flirt with male collegaues, need a vibrator and have huge boobs! I suppose you could say that a few of the guys have a soft spot for me ( I have a pulse!) But now I feel really self concious even talking to any guy, in case people think I'm flirting!
Its really uspet me, I feel humilated and labelled- even though I split up from my partner over a year ago and haven't been with anyone since! Do I talk to her or just get over it??
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Friendinneed13 · 20/07/2013 14:53
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