I've name changed for this one. I had a look at dh's texts last night (he's constantly glued to his phone). You may think I invaded privacy but I was wondering why he is constantly texting these days.
There were a series of texts yesterday afternoon (previous were deleted) with a female work colleague, the content was fairly anodyne but the tone of the messages and the style were quite flirty (hello, hello back, you are nice).
I confronted him because even if nothing else he never uses text niceties with me. It it totally out of 'text character' if you know what I mean and I would never ever text a male colleague or a client in that way.
So no smoking gun so to speak but an uneasy feeling. He says he was just being nice and I have it all wrong and then get a message from him this morning about how he knows we need to pay more attention to each other which is an odd leap?
I know it might seem minor but something's not right. How should I play next steps?
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Possibly overreacting, but instinct has kicked in
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breakingbadness · 19/07/2013 12:48
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