I know I have a toxic father and there isn't anything I can do about it but for various reasons I'm not at a point where I can cut him out of my life even though he talks to me as though he wouldn't care if I died tomorrow. I've tried to reconcile myself to the fact that, he isn't ever going to see my as his daughter.
There is this one thing he does though that really gets to me. He takes photos of my children on their birthdays and makes a big effort to make really nice pictures and then sends them all to his sister and my cousins. If I ask him if I could have one he says no, and keeps the rest of them all locked in his bedroom and doesn't even put them up in his own house!
I know this sounds bonkers but I'm just ranting really (there are far more other boring stories in the same vein) because there isn't anyone else I can tell. It bothers me because my camera is broken and I can't afford a new one at the moment. I don't have any pictures of dd3 up in my house and she often asks why. I just think he must be giving these pictures away (to people who probably don't even want them) just to spite me. Surely most people don't behave like this?
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Relationship with father bothers me, particularly because he acts like I matter less than everyone else
lottieandmia · 12/07/2013 19:48
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