I've been married 2.5 years and have a 1 year old. My H is crazy and we just had the worst argument, I called him lazy and he completely lost it, had me up against the wall, grabbed my arms so hard that I now have purple bruises (great, in this heat, as now I'll have to cover my arms up), then held me up by the shoulders, very close to my throat. Then would scream like a mad man in my face (mind you this is all directly under our 1 year old's bedroom), went to pick up my phone, he took it off me, dangled it over the toilet, I threatened to call police, fast forward 5 mins, he was then telling me he loved me. I said this relationship / marriage is over.
I'm not English (from the other side of the world), H is English and threatens that he would fight me, so that I could not take our child out of this country, then says his mum has a stake in the house, so I wouldn't get that either. He's a total prick.
To top this off, its my second day back at work after mat leave and I've gone back full time. Nothing like some added stress to my life.
Can someone tell me what happens next, I want out of this relationship. Can I serve divorce papers on him, when I'm still living here? Should I move out, should he? Thank you
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I want to leave / divorce - what happens next?
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Jammy321 · 10/07/2013 22:54
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