Can any of you wise ladies help me?
I am in an average ten year relationship. We rent together - he is lovely and caring. Sex is non-existent but mainly down to me, can't seem to get back in the sexy zone.
The problem is that after ten years we still have no kids/no mortgage/no marriage proposals.
I am not particularly religious and have never ever been the sort of woman who dreamt of my big day/white dress scenario so not sure why i'm grumbling. I think it's just after ten years i'd hoped for a little more in the way of a long term commitment. I am 32 now so probably kids are out for me now. I also feel in my heart of hearts i've gone past the house/commitment thing with him now maybe due to some underlying resentment that it didn't happen sooner.
We are both SHIT at communicating hence complete stalemate at the moment.
If I start afresh then no kids is an absolute certainty, though this is not my only reason for staying put - like I said, he's a lovely caring man.
So confused.
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haribogal · 07/07/2013 20:43
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