Am awful at this sort of thing so any advice gratefully received.
My late Dad had a friend. Friend is still alive. Dad used to find him very 'difficult' at best of times and he could be v embarrassing when they were out. (Not alzheimers, just embarrassing behaviour like flirting with young waitresses and making silly comments etc). Dad only really saw him because he didn't have the heart to cut him out).
I used to see this friend round at my Dad's house a lot. I didn't keep in touch with him after my Dad died though because quite frankly, I never really liked him much. He turned up at the house of another friend of my Dad's today (who I do keep in touch with) and he asked for my number. Which they gave him because they were so taken by surprise etc). He commented how disappointed he was in me for not bothering with him etc etc! I know he's going to phone. I don't want to be horrible because he's v v old. But I do not want to be made to feel I've done something wrong here. It's not like he was my friend!!! Any idea what I could say when he calls? TIA
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friend of late father's. How do I handle this?
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cafenoir · 30/06/2013 17:23
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