Hi guys. I've posted here a few times about issues I'm having with om/potential partner.
I left my husband a few months ago, it was a long running thing and I wasn't happy. I left and moved into rented house.
Om at the time was a million % supportive. He was amazing and literally couldn't do enough for me.
Last weekend we had an argument about his parents. (They are very controlling and dominating).
Since then, in the space of 5days, he's become like a stranger.
He says he is confused about what he wants. He's not sure how he feels about me, us, a future etc.
It's gone from constant txts, calls, affection, love, everything to absolutely nothing.
He doesn't tell me he loves me. He won't hug me or come near me. He takes hours to txt me back. He never calls and when I call him he only talks for a minute.
It hurts so much to be treated like this. I can't understand what I've done wrong.
He says he is very confused and just needs time to figure it all out.
In the meantime I don't know where I stand with him. I don't know how to behave around him. We work together and it's so horrible to be in the same office yet he treats me like he hardly knows me. He talks to me about work only and if I try talk to him, he turns on me saying I'm pushing him away.
What do you make of this?? Is it his way of ending it? But in a cowardly way? And how can he change so completely overnight?
I don't understand and I'm really confused and depressed.
Advice appreciated x
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Why is he treating me like this?
GroundHogDayAgain · 28/06/2013 16:55
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