To cut a long story short I found my dh was having an affair six weeks ago.
I was utterly devastated and heart broken, still am but seem used to living with it.
We have decided to try again, he's just moved back in.
We went to relate and it was excruciating, painful and it was like I was living the moment all over again. A few days later it still feels raw. Is this normal? Is it worth sticking to it? We've got another session lined up in a couple of weeks but am so unsure this is way forward. I felt better before.
I wish this pain would go away. I'm a shadow of myself.
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Relate .... Is it supposed to be this painful?
mrscraig · 24/06/2013 12:42
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