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So. My first "nasty" OD message.

(35 Posts)
StuffezLaYoni Thu 13-Jun-13 19:42:54

Ive had all the pervs and marrieds - they seem to go away if ignored. But this delightful specimen has taken the trouble to message me saying he's seen me round town (likely as small town) and I should change my photos to include my body, as they're misleading. (He didn't say body, he said gut.)
I know it's an inadequate wanker,pissed off I didn't reply to his "heyyyyy" the other week, but was that needed? Feeling a bit shit about myself but wish I didn't.

LineRunner Thu 13-Jun-13 20:50:39

Devon

Online Dating and Plenty Of Fuckwits Fish.

AndTheBandPlayedOn Thu 13-Jun-13 22:14:04

What Sipofwine said. He didn't get what he wanted so he verbally spanked you...the content of what he said doesn't matter. You wouldn't cooperate- so he punished you. I think that is all you need to know about that one. wink

dontyouwantmebaby Thu 13-Jun-13 22:47:28

oh OP what a pathetic unpleasant specimen this person is, just thank your lucky stars you didn't reply to his earlier 'heeeyyyyy' message!

know its easier said than done but really do try to forget this, it was only sent by him because you didn't reply to him, no other reason. pity the poor person that does end up with him, hope he gets kicked off the dating site by the admins.

I'd be sooooo tempted to do what lauriecakes says but even that bloody excellent retort would be seen as 'acknowledging' him by replying, so prob best to ignore. He's a worthless petty spiteful man, not worth your trouble. Hope you find someone lovely, don't let this dent your confidence.

DevonCiderPunk Thu 13-Jun-13 22:48:46

Thanks LineRunner

LessMissAbs Thu 13-Jun-13 23:18:51

How unfortunate to be a no-hoper man who is so used to rejection he feels he can only get attention from women by insulting them. Wouldn't you just hate to be him?

BreathingLessons Thu 13-Jun-13 23:24:39

would you recognise him if you saw him in your small town? Some people go from naught to nasty in under five seconds.

myroomisatip Thu 13-Jun-13 23:36:47

Honestly Stuffez, he is a loser and always will be!! Do not give him a second thought.

However, on a lighter note:

I will memorise this because I know I will need it one day...

"My mate fucked you a few years ago and she said you had a chipolata cock and only lasted 3 thrusts".

hahahahahaha brilliant smile

Discomama Fri 14-Jun-13 02:38:51

I just joined OD and got my first message yesterday, it went
Him: hi
Me: hello
Him: you look like a good fuck
Me:

I reported him and blocked him but I was very blushangry! Almost made me demand a refund but now I have a date with someone much nicerwine

Longdistance Fri 14-Jun-13 03:46:16

I rather thought chipolata was rather generous, I would have said prawn grin

I did OD about 8 years ago. I cannot for the life of me remember if I had any odd replies as I was very popular, and got hundreds of replies had lots of dates, but did wonder 'yes, I know why you're single'.

CogitoErgoSometimes Fri 14-Jun-13 06:49:23

"why take the time to do something so knobbish?"

Because he's inadequate, a bully and a coward. Bullies are so insecure they can only feel good about themselves by making others feel bad. Cowardly because he hasn't the balls to go up to you in the street to deliver this bizarre insult in person, he sends a message. If there were a book entitled 'Red Flags for Dummies'.... smile ... this would be Page 1.

Tosser...

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