My Brother and his Fiancée have just split up. They have been together for 10 years and she's been living in my parents house all that time (I moved out 6 years ago).
She didn't cheat or anything, but she doesn't love him any more. She tried to keep it to herself until after his exams where over, but he picked up on signs, and she moved out yesterday. My brother is devastated and wants a clean break, not even friends. He is quite bitter about it, but wont say anything bad about her.
But I don't know where that leaves me? It's her birthday on Tuesday do I send her a card/present? I lived with her like a sister for 4 years, my parents pretty much took her in (she was kicked out of her mums, and had a slight drug problem - which my brother got her off, got her a job, encouraged her to go back to school, and learn to drive ect, he changed her life for the better). She was my maid of honour just over a year ago, she was like a big sister, although I must admit to not seeing too much of her over the last few months.
She has moved home to her own parents, and has her own brothers and sisters. - do I leave her alone with them and cut contact, like my brother has or do I still carry on, as if nothing has happened?
(My brother hasn't stated a preference)
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Blockette · 07/06/2013 16:52
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