So i'm a namey name changer regular and just want to get a few things straight in my head and some advice, heres goes, sorry if this is long
after 20 years of swinging from one bad relationship to another then being single (by choice) for the last 6 years ive meet someone who really seems to good to be true and i just need a bit of perspective here
we met on the tinternet, after a few messages we decided to met for coffee, i thought nothing much of it as i had been on a few coffee dates at this point, so went in not expecting anything much to come of it
as soon as i met him there was chemistry between us, he was shy and polite, and conversation flowed easily, he had a nice ora and i had a good feeling about him
we went out a few more times and then he came to my house and brought me flowers, took me out to dinner, didnt overstay his welcome, went home without even trying it on or hinting to stay (just some nice kissing going on)
fast forward a couple of months and things have developed into full blown smitteness, ive meet his children, he has introduced me to his family, he cooks for me, showers me with affection, does thoughtful little things like booking tickets to see my favorite singer to buying me my my favortie tea bags for when i stay at his, he texts me every morning and rings me every night, he jumps at the chance to see me if im free or if i ask him to come over, he tells me he loves me at least once a day, he makes plans for doing stuff in the future, there isnt anything i dont like about him, he hasnt annoyed me once yet (very rare for me) we dont argue, he never plays it cool, always returns messages, always turns up when he says he will, hes just so uncomplicated and easy to love
so i now feel like im waiting for some bubble to burst, ive only ever been out with twats who play games and fuck with your head, is he too good to be true? does he sound to good to be true to you? i feel like im being blinded at the moment, i cant stop myself from falling head over heels and its a bit fucking scary
i need you to tell me if you spot any red flags here? because i think i might miss them even if they wacked me over the head right now, love is blind and all that.
soz for waffling
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