Long story short, my man has admitted he would rather have a wank than have sex with me.
I feel degraded. I feel like im nothing more than a skivvy who does his washing, cooks his meals etc.
He wants to have a threesome, I said no and that somethings should stay as a fantasy.
He is refusing to talk about it.
First he said its cos I had to come off the pill due to being allergic to progesterone - put something on the end of it I replied.
Next was I was never up for it and never came on to him - I threw myself at him, jumped him in the shower, caught him on the stairs etc
3rd is he doesn't like condoms - now im getting really pissed off!
4th he requested that I wear dresses and skirts and high heels around the house - I did this along with throwing myself at him still nothing.
On the rare occasion that we do have sex he insists on filming it. No idea why?!
Im getting to the point where I feel like telling him either you do it or you leave.
I've suggested councilling, sex therepy etc he isn't interested
This isn't healthy for a relationship what else can I do?
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Distinct lack of sex in our relationship
LittleBabyLucas · 18/05/2013 19:33
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