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fledgling relationship- is this what people do?

(52 Posts)
twentypairs Sat 18-May-13 15:24:36

I had a third date with this guy last night, he mentioned he was going out in the week so i told him i was going out with work friends on friday. He asks if he is invited.
So i say he can come along if he wants and we chat about it on and off throughout the evening.
I dont know if he meant it or if i will see him again. But that aside, is this what people do so early on?
To me, and being something of a committment phobe its quite scary and a bit ' coupley' when no conversation about whats happening has happened. And then all my work people will have met him etc....
But it could just be that this is how these things develop?

I dont know?

FlatCapAndAWhippet Sat 18-May-13 20:11:35

Nah, I don't think it's a red flag. Perhaps a little early in the (potential) relationship but hey, if you don't ask, you don't get. If you don't feel comfortable about it, do something else with him another night....but I'd take it as a compliment anyhow. smile

twentypairs Sat 18-May-13 20:12:13

My goodness, stop being so silly.

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