We have been married for 25 years. 2 daughters 19 and 22. Eldest at uni. Youngest at home.
Husband has always been doom and gloom. Negative. Sulky. He is a jealous man. Jealous of everyone and everything. I am the opposite.
He blows hot and cold. And we are treading on eggshells or asking him if he is ok.
To be honest I am just a bit fed up with it all.
It has ground me down. Always trying to be positive and jolly. I find myself recently snapping at him and not being nice to him because that is how he is with me. Then I hate myself.
He likes a drink. And he gets a bit nasty when he has had a few.
He is lovely for a while then he loses his temper over something trivial and throws, kicks things.
Financially we are well off although we don't have joint bank accounts. He controls the finances which is ok.
I have lived this way for so long I don't know if I could cope on my own.
Thank you for reading. Any advice?
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25 years married. Am I wasting my life?
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Shatttttang · 13/05/2013 12:25
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