So... recently split with DP of four years. It was a blah relationship, long-distance, very little time spent together and no love. I'm moving on, I have a couple of profiles on dating sites because I have no idea how normal people meet each other and I don't trust easily- I prefer to get to know people anonymously before actually meeting, so it works.
I met someone. I like him. Seemingly he likes me. I met him IRL last Sunday, we spent hours together talking. He was nervous, I was nervous. We met again Wednesday, he drove to a pub near me and met me after work. All good thus far, yes? Lots on common, good kisser.... yup.
He texted me every day since Sunday, we've had long conversations, talked about a future, made plans. But now I haven't heard from him since Thursday. I've text twice, I've messaged on the site we met. Nothing. I'm kicking myself, I'm wondering what I've done wrong, how I could have been better. Urgh.
Either he's off, not keen. Or is keen but not able to answer. I can't get it out of my head that I've buggered it up somehow, been too keen, not keen enough, or he's realised what he's gotten into- I'm obese, I'm no catch. Urgh urgh.
Someone tell me to bloody stop. Either he's not worth it or I'm being an idiot. Probably both.
Urgh. I liked this one more in two weeks of chatting and meeting than the previous DP in four years.
Urgh.
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Could you please slap me, or at best throw harsh words my way?
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