That's it really.
After a couple of years on MN, I am realising that he might have done me a favour.
He was different towards me after we got married. (DD was just a few months old.) He encouraged me to drop my career. He had at least two affairs, one when I was 7 months pregnant with DS who was born prematurely. ExH is a fucking knob.
He told me he was leaving me as he was sitting on the sofa, and I said 'Pack a bag and go.' He did and has behaved ever since like I threw him out. (He went to OW #2.)
Yet he hates me.
I was meant to beg him to stay, right?
Otherwise I cannot make sense of the ten years of utter hatred he has expressed towards me, through at least five girlfriends/partners, that frankly I am now sick of, as the DCs have turned 15 and 17.
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Has anyone been left by their (Ex)H, to bring up their DCs alone, and actually years later realised they are glad that he went?
LineRunner · 30/04/2013 21:26
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