My mum left me when I was 4. I haven't had any contact since except her dad telling me that she didn't want to meet me and had blocked out that part of her life (she was 16 when I was born, left when I was 4).
My aunt lives in the same city as me and wanted to get in touch before. We were going to meet via my grandads wife (grandad had died) but sadly she died before the meeting could happen.
I wrote to her once but didn't get a response so wondered if she had thought twice about wanting to get in touch.
I met with my grandads wifes daughter recently and it has come about that my aunt does want me to get in touch and I now have her email.
What the hell do I say?! I have also found out that she is close to her sister (my mum) and she comes to visit her (my mum moved away from this city when she left me, but I wasn't aware that she comes back here). I think this closeness has come about more in the last few years. Obviously I imagine that my aunt would tell her sister about seeing me, but I as far as I know, my mum still doesn't want to know me.
HELP!!!!!!!!! Please.
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I'm going to contact my aunt, sister of the mother that left me age 4, she wants me to get in touch, what the hell do I say!?
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CrapBag · 26/04/2013 18:04
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