Have been together nearly twenty years. married ten, two DS since we married. First marriage for us both. No kids from previous relationships. He's a lovely man and a great dad but I'm not feeling a lot of love or desire for him and haven't for some time. We do date nights and have a good social life together and separately but recently find I'd rather go out in a group or not with him than just the two of us. I feel a bit repulsed by the idea of sex. I really want to stop feeling like this as we have had a good relationship. He won't do counselling. We went once but he asked me not to talk about sex and we never went again. Have you recovered from a situation like this and how did you do it?
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i don't find him attractive anymore. what to do?
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mydoorisalwaysopen · 21/04/2013 12:37
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