People post on this section of MN when they feel desperate and it seems that these two responses make them abandon their thread.
- MNHQ posting that the thread has been reported, and
- 'OP, I recognise you from another thread"
So, why does it happen?
If an OP asks you not to 'out' her, why on earth would you say you recognised her from another thread? Imagine how threatened that must make her feel. Just don't do it. It doesn't give you points for recognising her! Just shut up.
And MNHQ, be more sensitive.
Just that really.
Too many threads have been abandoned by the OP recently because of this sort of hoo-haa.