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please help me partner just attacked am in shock

(259 Posts)
yummytummy Sat 20-Apr-13 22:38:15

Unfortunately an ongoing thing had been taking steps to leave but things calmed down.

Just tried to talk about a fight we had yesterday I started v calm then he didn't like what I waz saying got agitated then pushed me onto sofa hard then pulled my legs and was dragging me around I tried to get him off and ripped his top then of course I am the crazy one and I started attacking him for no reason.

Then he said wd kill me if I phoned police kids are asleep he is refusing to leave what do I do plz help

BabyHMummy Mon 29-Apr-13 14:02:27

Hugs Huni Xxx

yummytummy Mon 29-Apr-13 15:04:10

Thankyou for hugs, hugs to all of you too. Its so nice to receive such kindness from here just dont have much in rl. Feel a bit affection starved! And kids are lovely but tiny so will endure my hugs then ask for more chocolate. Feel like have been letting them down a bit with fishfingers etc and more junky food than normal.

yummytummy Mon 29-Apr-13 15:06:26

Also hav totally lost appetite which is unlike me all clothes loose wd be great ordinarily but not now. But then I am constantly told I am fat and ugly so believe it now

just to add a hug from here too.
Fishfingers do not count as junk food! they are healthy! smile
We have cucumber to almost anything, it counts as "veg" and will sometimes be their 1-a-day...
How old are your children?
You just take your time, and when you are all yourself again I'm pretty sure you'll start noticing how lovely you are!
Constant abuse does not make anyone beautiful, but you'll blossom once you don't have to hear all this rubbish spouted at you!

extra hug.

Many hugs from me!
This is a turbulent time - fishfingers and beans on toast for a few weeks, plus maybe a bit more telly than usual - is better for your DC than a childhood spent with an abusive father. You are doing brilliantly, be kind to your self and keep on keeping on!
(((hugs)))

I completely agree with all the other posters. Please don't worry about your children's diet at this point - there will be plenty of days, weeks and years to feed them what you want. Your energy is needed to get out of the relationship.

Are you able to get to the solicitors today?

Jux Tue 30-Apr-13 09:28:06

(((hugs)))

Hang in there.

Stellarella123 Wed 01-May-13 19:29:01

How's it going?

cjel Thu 02-May-13 12:39:43

Morning yummy, How are the fish fingers? You OK?

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