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A happy update from TIL

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TisILeclerc Thu 18-Apr-13 14:29:10

She and the children are where they need to be now and she is very grateful for all the support and encouragement she has received. I hope very much that she will return here but for now she’s intending to lie a little bit low.

Please just be sensitive to the fact that this is a huge, life changing decision for her and I think she would like it toned down a bit wrt pompoms and congratulations. I hope very much that this will change as the days pass and she becomes accustomed to the incredulous joy of freedom. She is already sounding positive about life where she is right now.

This time they really are ‘safe’ in the way that everybody hoped previously.

NB I have not used any names in this for a reason. Please be aware of security as she is understandably very worried about him locating her

thanks

Lemonylemon Thu 18-Apr-13 14:30:55

Thank God.

ThreeTomatoes Thu 18-Apr-13 14:31:38

Tis please pass on my ear-splitting smiles to her smile

PeoniesPlease Thu 18-Apr-13 14:33:27

Fingers crossed this is about who I think it is.

Well done, and best of luck for the future. I'm sure the next few weeks and months will have their challenges, but I hope that you (and your DCs) will also be able to enjoy the freedom which you have given yourself and them.

I'm just absolutely in awe of your strength and courage. flowers

bunchamunchycrunchycarrots Thu 18-Apr-13 14:34:43

Thanks for the info Tis. Good to hear.

brainonastick Thu 18-Apr-13 14:34:58

Good for her. I have so much admiration for her strength.

TisILeclerc Thu 18-Apr-13 14:35:30

Peonies it most certainly is about who you think it is smile

ThreeTomatoes Thu 18-Apr-13 14:36:10

I feel quite emotional.

PeoniesPlease Thu 18-Apr-13 14:36:38

Tis smile

DonkeysDontRideBicycles Thu 18-Apr-13 14:37:02

My goodness, best wishes to her.

OxfordBags Thu 18-Apr-13 14:37:27

This has made my day. She has a long journey ahead of her, but this was the biggest step. What a woman! grin

No pompoms but I have a tear in my eye.

As I think will a lot who have been in that situation in the past.

Was wondering if today would be the day. Thanks for the update.

HerrenaHandbasket Thu 18-Apr-13 14:38:14

Delighted to hear it - she has been in my thoughts today (more than usual that is) grin

Thanks for the update Tis.

oh I forgot to add a

grin

Thanks so much for the update Tis. Very pleased and relieved.

The support and wisdom on the thread has been amazing. So much insight.

First day of the rest of her life.

She has been on my mind today too Herrena. More than usual!

BeingAWifeIsNotForMe Thu 18-Apr-13 14:42:07

Thank you for the update, thanks

Please pass on a big squeeze to all if you can.

kasbah72 Thu 18-Apr-13 14:44:56

A very quiet yay from here. As a long-time lurker on her threads I am thrilled to hear she has made such a monumental step. I hope she gets the help, support and space she needs to face each day as her life starts to change.

MadBusLady Thu 18-Apr-13 14:48:29

Good news.

<restraint>

smile

What courage, what amazing courage. You absolutely did the right thing (and thank you TIL for duly updating us).

Wishing you lots of strength and luck.

arthriticfingers Thu 18-Apr-13 14:58:13

can I send you a hug and a kiss?

No pom poms, just a huge sigh of relief. Thinking of you, and hoping you soon start to experience relief and happiness at the freedom to have those dress up teas whenever you want.

FromGirders Thu 18-Apr-13 15:05:44

Thank goodness. So relieved.
And well done.

Leverette Thu 18-Apr-13 15:06:56

You've done a great thing thanks

Flisspaps Thu 18-Apr-13 15:08:31

Marvellous smile

NeverBeenToMe Thu 18-Apr-13 15:12:07

Another long time lurker - so relieved to hear this update.

Today is the first day of the rest of her life smile

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