Hi everyone
Reading this is helpful to know other people out there are going through the same as me... I broke up with my fiance 3 days ago, we have been together for 9 years (we are both 25). I have put him and his happiness before mine for years, and last week he told me that he wasn't sure he wanted to get married or have kids, and felt he needed time on his own, and has kissed girls in the past (which i had to pull out of him as i felt he may have been unfaithful) still couldn't believe what he was saying and kidded myself everything would be ok!!!!! It was only at the weekend i finally woke up and said it was over. I have been staying with my parents and my friends, and am going to look at an apartment later on. I cant believe how weak i had been to let him walk all over me, and now i am being strong and saying 'enough is enough' he is turning it round on me and everyone is to feel sorry for him, putting sad status on social network sights and crying to his friends...but it was him who wanted this!!! I have text him to ask when he is going to get his stuff from our house, he is ignoring this and just texting things like 'I miss you' etc! I havent text back to it i need to be strong.
He probably never thought i would actually go through with it. Its a shame as i really do love him in every way and have some fantastic Memories with him, but if he doesn't know what he wants or cant commit after 9 years then i think i am doing the right thing?!!
Thanks for listening to me go on, feels good to write it out
Xxx
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Pinkyblondeprincess · 10/04/2013 08:05
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