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Last train to Loserville Part 2

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LoserNoMore Sun 07-Apr-13 21:55:44

After the overwhelming support I've received on my thread I had to start another. Well I didn't have to but I have found all the advice so helpful that even if I only receive one more piece it will help.

I'll try and post the link to the full sorry story. Never linked on my phone before so it may not work.

http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1722750-This-doesnt-look-good-does-it?pg=40&order=

imtheonlyone Sun 07-Apr-13 21:59:53

Welcome to your new thread and new name gringrin
I don't want this to sound awful but I am addicted to reading your thread!! Your Loser of a H never fails to amaze me and neither does the way in which you are dealing with everything.

Keep going - you're amazing!

bountyicecream Sun 07-Apr-13 21:59:58

Loving the new name wink

AnyFucker Germany Sun 07-Apr-13 22:00:47
Arcadia Sun 07-Apr-13 22:01:18

No advice but you are inspiring! Cheering you on, yay you! smile

Cuddlydragon Sun 07-Apr-13 22:02:45

Love the new name!

NotMostPeople Sun 07-Apr-13 22:03:03

I've been following your thread from the begining and am in awe of how amazingly you've handled a horrible situation. Even DH who normally filters out any talk of MN asked how you were getting on. Keep strong and keep posting.

TimidLivid Sun 07-Apr-13 22:03:48

Also addicted to ur kick ass attitude and how you have risen above it all

PoppadomPreach Sun 07-Apr-13 22:04:12

I keep thinking of the proclaimers.....

Lochaber no more
Loser no more

Good song, good name change

ShootingStarsss Sun 07-Apr-13 22:04:35

Your doing amazing.
Love your new name and thread title smile

kinkyfuckery Sun 07-Apr-13 22:06:33

Love the new name.

So, what's the plan for this week then OP?

madonnawhore Sun 07-Apr-13 22:07:44

I've been following your other thread too. And I really think it should be preserved on mumsnet forever as a textbook example to others of how to handle yourself with total class and dignity in the event of finding out your husband is a spineless piece of shit.

When all of this is over and the dust has settled, you're going to look back on how you've conducted yourself throughout this whole ordeal and feel so proud.

At least, I hope you do. It's such a breath of fresh air to see a woman who truly knows the value of her own self worth. And act on that knowledge accordingly.

Keep going, we're all right behind you cheering you on and having girl crushes on you a little bit.

DharmaBums Sun 07-Apr-13 22:08:38

Was also following your previous thread and need to post that I too think you're an amazing, courageous woman! You're an inspiration to many of us that have/are going through similar issues. You sound like you've brought up some wonderful DC's too, so all credit to you.
Keep on being strong OP!

forgetmenots Sun 07-Apr-13 22:09:53

Agree with everything madonnawhore said - well done LNM smile

LoserNoMore Sun 07-Apr-13 22:12:28

Thanks Anyfucker. I knew it would fail.

You lot have made me blush! Poppadom, I keep getting that song in my head too! It wasn't intentional, I promise. grin

WildThong Netherlands Sun 07-Apr-13 22:14:51

I'm following you too. Hugs and strength to you!

CajaDeLaMemoria Sun 07-Apr-13 22:17:05

I love the new thread and name smile

LoserNoMore Sun 07-Apr-13 22:17:11

Kinky, no real plans. Back to work on Wednesday sad don't want to but needs must. Hoping dd3 is crusting over ( the spots that is) then can get out and about again.

tightfortime Sun 07-Apr-13 22:18:03

I was watching the other thread and replied on there but delighted to see you start a new thread as you are an inspiration and lesson giver in 'not settling for his crap' for other mumsnetters out there in that same awful situation.

Bravo.

KatyTheCleaningLady Sun 07-Apr-13 22:19:04

I wish you all the best luck in the world. Your husband has lost someone precious and wonderful.

sleeton Sun 07-Apr-13 22:21:41

I am glad that you have started a new thread LoserNoMore and very very glad that you continue to cope. You inspire with your strength and dignity.

You're a star!

Inertia Sun 07-Apr-13 22:21:53

Love the name change!

BriansBrain Sun 07-Apr-13 22:28:22

Brilliant name change and so glad you are so positive if not drained because of his inability to comprehend the fact he is a dick.

Good name change!

TwinkleSparkleBling Sun 07-Apr-13 22:33:06

Just wanted to add my thinking of you too.

Some men are complete tossers, aren't they?

Not cherishing an amazing woman. He is most definitely the loser.

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