I have posted on here a few times, it's helpful to get others views and also stops me turning it round and round in my head:( I have been unhappy for a few years now and these last few months I have had enough and can't do it anymore. We fell out on mothers day weekend and I have been unable to 'get over' (his words!)what happened this time, on top of all the other things that have happened over the years I have had enough and cant bring myself to be bothered or care anymore:( I have been grumpy, miserable and I barely speak to him unless I have to(sounds bad I know) because I can't, I have always been the one to try and talk about things, tell him how I feel in the hope things may change but they don't and I realise now they won't:( what I find hard is his attitude, he thinks all is ok, behaves as he always has done, ignores the fact I am unhappy and when he does comment it's to blame me for being unhappy-not him, it's my problem, the other evening I was in a mood because there was football on-according to him anyway:( I have sought legal advise and am seriously considering divorce, but then I look at him and his behaviour and think I am deluded-how can I be this unhappy and him unphased? Is it really me? Have I got this completely wrong? Any views much appreciated, thank you for reading:)
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