I've been 'getting to know' a guy, I met about w month ago.
From the get go I was instantly attracted to him. He was nice, we get on really well & have a great time.
We agreed to go on a date, although haven't actually been yet (both been busy) we have seen each other nearly every day since we met.
However, village life being village life word got around I was spending time with him. My ex pulled one of my friends aside and told them it would all end in tears...
Que this new guy telling me he has a bit of a 'past' long story short, there was an incident with an ex 3 years ago, where the police were involved. She hit him, he hit her back.
Talking to my ex... this guy also has some issues with sex (he's not really into it because he thinks he's rubbish in bed) but I'm not overly worried about that, can be easily solved.
My friends that know this guy, have said its in the past & not toworry about it. My friends that don't know him say to steer well clear.
I really do genuinly like this guy.... but having been violent on this occasion in the past.... should I just steer clear completly, I've never experienced this kind of thing before so I'm not sure what to do?
Can men change? He seemed to genuinly regret what happened... but who knows?
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wwyd - man with a past
chocolatecakeystuff · 20/03/2013 21:39
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