Dp smokes weed. This in itself has caused problems as I am against drugs but we have reached a compromise. He smokes of an evening in the shed or at his friends houses, he doesn't spend more than we can afford and he doesn't drink, take other drugs stay out all night partying etc. He says it helps him to unwind much like a glass of wine in the evening etc.
The problem is, when he is smoking every day he has ni sex drive. We haven't had sex in a month. We are both mid twenties and when he's not smoking we have it at least 3 times a week so it is definitely the weed killing it.
I want sex more often that once a month and I don't see why I should give up a healthy sex life so he can take drugs. I make an effort with my apperancre, have lost all of the baby weight and more.
I have spoken to him about it an he said he would make an effort. We had sex 3 times that week then nothing since. (that was a month ago). I brought it up again but now it feels like if he does have sex with me its because I am forcing him.
Is this worth splitting up over or would I be a fool to break up my family over sex.
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splitting up over sex
NippyDrips · 07/03/2013 09:37
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