Please, please, please help. I feel distraught, I don't know what to do.
My partner of 12 years just admitted he has been having sex with transexuals, no a one off, every now and then. I feel disgusted that he has been lying to me all this time. I need serious help, because all I want to do is kill myself.
I knew he enjoyed watching the transexual porn, but accepted he had this addiction. He has taken it a step further with acting out his fantasy. I kept telling him he should give me a real shot at love if he can't be faithful (he has cheated before) but he kept insisting he loved me and wanted to be a family (we have four kids).
I know he will continue to live out his fantasy, because when I asked him he said he didn't know if he could live without this in his life.
I am happy he has felt he could be honest, but devastated by his reality. He has been living a whole different life. I think he has been using me has his cover to say he has a happy family.
He treats me like crap most of the time, but is a good, not great, father to our children.
I will never be intimate with him again because of his dishonesty, but I want out of the relationship. This is way too much for me to deal with. Too many secrets and lies.
I am pregnant now and would have to sacrifice everything I worked hard for. He has destroyed my life. Suicide is an option, butt would hurt my kids too much.
Please help someone, I am very fragile right now. Am crying as I type, so sorry if there are any grammatical errors.
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Needhelpfast · 02/03/2013 08:20
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