Hi first time here, bear with me. My partner ended our 13 year relationship 14 months ago a week before our daughters first birthday. He has been spending time with his daughter and our break up has been fairly amicable, however now he has met a new woman he told he this via a text message. Intial text said I have met a new girl "at the moment it is not serious"
Then couple of days later he came round so i said to him the only thing i want to say to you is not to introduce her to our DD until he was sure it was serious. He then said well it is serious and they have already met although we are taking it slowly. Im mad as hell about this
The following day I asked for the keys back to apartment (joint owned) as he would only text me a couple of minutes before arriving and sometimes just let himself in i said the time had come as he was in new relationship i needed to have some privacy and help me mentally move on, told "no way" after further explanation and becoming upset because i explained im finding it difficult not having the family unit i wanted, he said he would think about keys.
He then took DD for the weekend
The following morning to prove my privacy point i texted to say i was going to be at his apartment in 5 mins (never been before) however when i got there (in 2 mins) new gf was just leaving she left just before i got out of car, we have never met but i know it was her, and it was obvious she had stayed over and was due to spend day there with my DD, hardley taking it slowly!! when i went to apartment i said im proving my privacy point but i also asked him if she had stayed (i didnt say i had saw her leave)he said im not going to answer that as its none of your businesss. I suppose it isnt but he lied about her contact with my DD and then it is my business. However he does not see this
I have no problem with him having new gf but a have a problem with my daughter being with them together she is not speaking yet (26 months)and may get confused and it would break my heart if she calls her mama before me
I dont know what im asking really just need to get of my chest and see how others coped also some feedback on my ex's behaviour and what to do say now without coming accross as a jealous ex!
Chin up i suppose .............
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slewoman · 01/03/2013 20:23
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