Firstly I know men are more likely to just say stuff without meaning much and women tend to analyse what has been said and make something out of it so maybe that's all this is but wanted some opinions.
Bascially DP and I had a big row a few weeks ago. During which, I hinted that I wanted marriage etc and felt that I sometimes feel we want different things from the relationship. He disagreed with me but didn't touch on the marriage thing during the conversation.
The next day he changed his facebook relationship status to "in a relationship with ... " and linked me to it. This pleased me as up until this point he's seemed quite unwilling to acknowledge me on facebook and it was making me all paranoid.
The day after he came home from work saying his mate was laughing about it and said "ooo next it will say "dp is engaged to .... " and dp smiled as he told me this.
Another one was I joked that I was going to apply for a job at his work - he said "yeah you should, nothing better than a good husband and wife work combo!"
And today I said something daft and he said "look, if you're going to be the wife of an - you need to learn the right lingo!" and laughed.
Another one was he came home saying his mate was getting married and spending a fortune on it - he then said "I wouldn't spend all that would you?" and I said "no, I'd save the money for the honeymoon" and he laughed and said "yeah, me too!"
On valentines day he asked me if I fancied morrocco next year, just the two of us.
Am I reading too much into it or has he been thinking about it?
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Subtle 'marriage' talk or am I reading too much into it?
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simplesays · 01/03/2013 16:54
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