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Something "not quite right"

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EyePlunge Wed 20-Feb-13 14:21:09

I don't know what it is but I can't push this feeling from the back of my head that something just isn't quite right with my partner. We've been together about a year and have spent a lot of time together, been away together, been abroad together, been to family get together's together and I've even been to hospital appointments with him etc. So I feel like I know him pretty well. But there is something bothering me and I can't quite put my finger on it. I sit here and think and think and it just doesn't become clear to me. He's lovely to me and we always enjoy each other's company, we have a laugh, great sex, he's good with the kids, he's a good dad to his own kids but there is something not quite right!!! How do I determine what is bothering me?? We're in the process of moving in together so I need to decide one way or another if I'm being paranoid or if my instinct is kicking in for a reason!

You are not totally sure about him so the fact that he is dragging his heels about moving in together is a very good thing - welcome it. Tell him you'd like to slow things down a bit and then really pay attention to what your instincts are telling you. A nagging voice is telling you to BE CAREFUL THERE listen to it.

Are you in a hurry to move in together? If so - why? Are you you keen to override concerns that you have?

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